IDYLLIC ZANZIBAR AND ABROAD
Benny & Betty's Dream
Greetings from Benito Simeon de Souza hailing from Zanzibar-Goa-England ..... actually I feel like I am a Citizen of
the World ! Take me as I am for my roots are from my ancestral homeland Goa ... my birthplace Unguja (Stone
Town) Zanzibar, and my present abode is the United Kingdom (UK) with my precious wife Betty Boccaro my school
mate(childhood sweetheart) whom I love, married, and cherish unconditionally, together with our three children
Winston/Lynn De Souza, Lisette/Clive DuPratt and littleYvette/David May, and seven grandchildren Miles, Alex, Molly,
Abigail, Emily, Jacob and Sophie whom you will undoubtedly meet in due course via my pictures and stories, as you
will my siblings Yvette/Mike Muise, Annabella/Alexander Fernandes, Jerome/Ann de Souza, and Rhoda da Costa, and
all their children and grandchildren whom you will undoubtedly meet via my pictures.
In response to requests from far and wide, I have decided to release my Pictorial Memories which began in that
beautiful Spice Island called Zanzibar, my Paradise on Earth as I once knew it, and still know it from recent visits
there, ending in The Queen's Isle ... the British Isles.
Geographers and Historians have all accurately given the world all the details about Zanzibar. My rendition, which I
call "Benny and Betty's Dream" consists of personal encounters with myriads of people from immediate family, to
friends and acquaintances, scattered around the world. You will not find any of what I am gifting to all of you in any
book or documentary. My treasury of pictures comes from my camera and from photos handed down to me, or from
my family archives .... I have been an avid photographer ever since I received my first box camera as a child .... I
have saved them all ... ALL about 5,000 of them???
Upon leaving Zanzibar for England, I was most fortunate to have been given my first job here with The American
Telegraph Company 'Commercial Cable Company', who issued work permits for a few of my friends from Zanzibar
including my brother Jerome of whom I am extremely proud, giving all, entries to the UK, after which, I transferred
to Reuters where I worked for 25 1/2 years in the Computer Network Operations. I began as Network Controller and
graduated to Manager for all Network Controllers and Computer Operators, then moved to the new Technical Centre
in Docklands as Networks Operations Administration Manager. I was totally in my element.
I must acknowledge that I owe all my successes in my life, after Zanzibar, to Reuters who treated me like a prince. I
thank The American Telegraph Company, and Reuters for all the blessings that followed our exodus from Zanzibar in
1964 and thereafter .... blessings from heaven ! I am happy to report that all have done well with the blessings
received.
I now hand these photographic memories to you who know me, with much love and admiration of your friendship/s
throughout my life, from Zanzibar days to now UK days. All great ! Thank you for the wonderful times we spent
together over the years first as Family members, then as students at St. Joseph's Convent School before embarking
on Cable and Wireless days under the guidance of my wonderful Dad, Aleixo de Souza, to growing up to see the
world and making our very own histories. I worked at Cable & Wireless Zanzibar for 6 years.
Apart from my Dad, my mother Laurie de Souza was my best friend and confidant. Both she and Dad loved music
and dancing and I can honestly and proudly say that I inherited both these gifts from them.
My UK Band, Black Velvet still bespeaks a story of its own in grace and popularity. I am truly proud to dedicate all
my successes to both my Mum and Dad who encouraged all my efforts and dreams. Also, from them I learnt from a
very early age about kindness, generosity, and love, without discrimination or prejudice, and I have tried to live
what I learnt all my life to this day. " Thank you dearest Mum and Dad whose abode is now in heaven. God bless
you. Please continue to watch over all of us, for Family was your most precious gift to us."
"Thank you Mum too, for opening the study of conchology to us. Your beautiful shells are a constant reminder of
your devotion to the art of collecting the beauties of nature without ruining the environment, and I was ever so
proud to have been able to add to your collection as a diver in the turquoise waters of the beaches surrounding
Zanzibar."
Of special note ... Mummy learnt from her father Agapitus all about conchology for he was indeed and an avid shell
collector and had won two gold medals for having the best shell collections in the British Empire .... quite an
achievement I'd say.
I must here add that my siblings and I were very blest to have had our maternal grandparents living in Zanzibar.
However, we all have fond memories of our grandfather Agapitus C. De Souza who was a distinguished Banker and
Business Entrepreneur who brought many Goans to Zanzibar to work in his Confectionary and Toys Shop before the
WW2 wars in Europe.
Because Toys and Confections could not be imported anymore due to the wars, my grandfather decided to close this
section of his business but kept the bakery section open. However, I must say here that the heart of my
grandparent's home was our grandmother Chrispina de Souza who was a classy lady of grace and beauty and she
was an exquisite hostess to all who graced her table. We loved going to visit our grand parents and our Uncles and
Aunts ... Pantu, Almira, Dolly and Alaric. We had some memorable times together.
Check out the attached wedding cake my grandma made for my parents' nuptials .... it's a masterpiece beyond the
reach of even today's cake decorator's realm. WOW !
Many of you will remember how highly St. Joseph's Cathedral honoured my grandparents and his immediate family
with special seats in the sanctuary for attendance of Mass and other church services. We used to get teased about
"The Royal Family" grand entrance at Sunday Mass with my grandfather always dressed in a three piece suit, tie and
posh walking stick walking up the isle with his family in tow .... he did indeed make a regal figure. I was only a little
tyke then and I sat with my school friends in the pews reserved for all the children of the parish. Those were the
days my friends when we took everything for granted and only realize now how wonderful it all was, once upon a
time. I appreciate so much more of my childhood and growing up in paradise Zanzibar, today, than ever before.
My siblings all have their own memories of once idyllic Unguja and our heritage. You'll have to read my sister
Yvette's two books which capture the histories of our family in Zanzibar and Goa ...."Rabiznaz the Red Colobus
Monkey" and the Crystal Orb of Light in Zanzibar; and Rabiznar the Red Colobus Monkey and The Jewel from Spain
in Goa Dourado .... complete with photographs and illustrations by herself, hand written in calligraphic style.
Now, my pictures and stories contained herein are a record of music, dancing, scuba diving, sport, Reunions,
Birthday Parties and Weddings, and arrivals of numerous grandchildren yours and mine amidst top-notch
celebrations galore. And you my dearest Family and Friends are featured somewhere and everywhere within "Benny
and Betty's Dream" rendition.
Highlight of my website is mentioning my wife Elizabeth Bocarro, I have so much to say about my dearest loving
wife Betty known to most folks in Zanzibar.
Betty has always supported me in all my various ventures including sport and music. Family photos will tell the full
story of all her talents and skills which never ceases to amaze. To be exact, unlimited all-round talents from dress-
making, expert in cake-making, super cook with all global cooking, tops in entertaining at our home parties, super
dancer now with her new hobby 'Cocktail Specialist', super gardener, her pride in keeping a wonderful home well
maintained, and above all her close caring for all her children and grandchildren who get very special attention at all
times.
I hope you will like my special "BENNY AND BETTY'S DREAM" gift .... A gift from my heart to you for posterity.
With all my love.
Benny
[Benito Simeon de Souza]
from Zanzibar/UK to our global community